Je travaille en français.
Bon c'est vrai en franglais.
`Mais vous ne le savez peut être pas, je travaille également en anglais.
Et mes clientes anglophones m'ont dit qu'elles aimeraient me lire dans la langue de la reine Elizabeth.
So Girls (and Guys) this is what I got for you:
Have you ever wondered what does it take to live the best life possible ?
We have just one right ? So how do we make it fulfilling ?
Well, I have been asking the question my whole life and I am going to tell you everything about it.
My intention is to convince you to shift from the idea that is widely propagated which is « having » to « being »
How ? By telling you about my own experience living this shift.
Like everyone else, my default equation was :
DO it all + HAVE it all = you can BE all
Meaning get the best job, get the diplomas, education... live in the best cities, get awesome trips…..
Basically my life was a to-do achievement list !
But the problem with the achievement oriented life is : you will never get enough.
So it’s gotta be something else !
So I hired a Life Coach back in Australia.
The experience blew my mind !
Most of it all, it reminded me of my dream as a child.
I have always wanted to be a Coach !
See, I have read a Stephen Covey’s book, the 7 habits, very early in my life.
I was 12 and I was so in love with the book and the guy himself.
He was a Coach and I decided then that I would be a Coach myself.
At that time, being a Coach, you needed to have an astonishing executive job, have you own billion dollar company and be very old.
Cauz you woudn't be taking seriously !
I had none of these so I decided I will go somewhere near and figure Management would be my passeport to get to my coaching career.
I did study Management for 5 years and loved it sooo freaking much. But when I tried Coaching people, it felt like life was passing through me.
What’s different ?
Why am I feeling totally fulfilled ?
I figured it out.
I am starting TO BE and I am allowing myself to do what I love to do !
Weird Ha !
So I registered to an ICF Certified Coaching training so that I can coach professionally.
Upon starting the program, the number one tool I needed and I didn't have was Presence.
Mine was so damaged I had to do something about it.
I went to a Meditation Retreat for 10 days with the following intention : it will be a voyage in my own universe.
And you know what ?
That trip made me realize something big about myself : performance.
I was a performer.
Let me tell you about performance, it’s the source of all struggle.
I wish it was me who came with this concept but it’s my friend François Lemay who taught me this.
I wanted to have it all not for the sake of humanity, I wasn’t going to set a new world record ? !
Only for the sake of scoring my own expectation game. My own expectation wall.
Thinking the being way instead of the having way is about self love and worthiness
In conclusion, shifting from having to being is shifting from being a Go Getter to being a Go Giver.
Giving instead of getting
I know what you’re thinking and NO you don’t have to be mother Teresa.
You just need to Give to yourself first.
Now if you are wondering what should I give to myself ? I will tell you this :
You just need to give to yourself the permission to do what you love.
Carry your dreams in your heart.
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